Everybody has someone.
Everybody has a favourite person. A best friend. A partner. Someone that they are close to more than anyone else. Maybe someone you spend most of your time with, you enjoy being around them the most and you miss them when they go home. But having a favourite person when you have bpd becomes so much more than that. Having a Fp (favourite person) when you have bpd can be amazing but also excruciatingly painful. How so? Well where do I start... When you have bpd the need for validation is constant. You want to feel cared for and loved and even if you know you are you want to be told every second of everyday. That you are important. You need to be reassured all the time which is very exhausting for a bpd sufferer. Just a heads up we don't choose to be this way and if we could choose I'm sure we wouldn't choose this. Personally I struggle day in day out with my bpd, my emotions are all over the place and I'm constantly battling the rational side of brain with the bpd si